When someone asks me what type of stuff I write, I usually have about five seconds where I think, “How much should I tell this person?”
Should I bring up sexuality and the sex industry? Should I just stick to parenting and gender? What about bdsm?
And to take it even further, how much do I tell people who are already in my life? My parents? My husband, who is not a writer? My friends, most of whom are not writers?