Cut Backs: Wrinkles and RecessionBy Colleen McGrath
March 26, 2009
I just used my boyfriend’s shaving cream to shave my legs and now they smell like a man. On the one hand, I’m still shaving my legs, which I consider a coup in the war against the loss of my beauty regime. On the other hand, my legs smell like a man’s face. Sometimes that’s okay, but it’s better when you’re lying in bed with oxytocin rushing through your veins and the sheets rumpled beneath you rather than fresh from the shower.
I used to have my own shaving cream, fancy bath oils to make me smell pretty, creams to make my skin glow, creams to slow the aging process, top of the line make up to cover the aging process, expensive hair products and monthly mani-pedi excursions. Truth be told, none of it was for anyone other than myself or maybe, as fellow TBN’r Kimberly Wetherell suggests in her short documentary, for other women. Regardless, I loved it.
Thanks to the bankrupting war on Iraq, Bernie Madoff, those parasites at AIG and a global recession, I am cutting back with the rest of the world. I’m grateful to have a job, a roof over my head, food on the table and Maybelline in my bathroom cupboard. “Maybe she’s born with it?” Maybe she’s broke!
Berlin seems to house an above-average percentage of folk who look like life has been pretty damn hard. Perhaps it’s the horrible weather, perhaps it’s the harsh, mineral-filled water, perhaps it’s the marathon chain smoking or the beer. I’m often surprised to find out the 50-year-old woman next to me is actually 35. It’s not helped by the trend toward androgynous fashion, either. Of course we have our beautiful people in Berlin, but it’s not as important or prevalent in the culture as it is in places like New York, Miami and L.A.
The truth is, life probably is pretty damn hard. Berlin has always been a poor city. It’s where you come to live cheap, protest and create weird art. Everyone here seems to be starting over and barely making it. La Boheme is alive and well all around this city and, while there is some fantastic art in all its forms produced here, even moderately famous people are squatting or trying to squeak by on unemployment and an occasional commission.
What to do? On the one hand, it’s an absolute release to escape the daily pressures and expectations of image that was part of my life in New York City. On the other hand, there were parts of that I truly enjoyed. Come on, I’m an opera singer. I’m genetically coded to play dress up. It’s nice not to feel like the fat girl in a sea of anorexic waifs, but at the same time, being a “girl” in some ways is something I really enjoy. There has to be some middle ground.
For now I’m doing what I can not to lose myself entirely in the tightening of the purse strings. I’m learning how to use TRUblend and remembering how to paint my own toes. I guess if my legs smell like my boyfriend’s face, I’ll count that as a win over not having a razor to shave them with at all. The creams will have to go. I will try to embrace the grey when it comes and remember to love the creases around my eyes. I have enough to get by–more than some–and I guess it won’t kill me to finally look my age. Oh God.